He was old-fashioned. I don't even know when I first came across the notion of a god or hell, probably from evangelicals on daytime television. Serve food at a soup kitchen, help box up clothes to send to a homeless shelter, offer to do yard work for a senior, or help restock the church's food bank. And I don't need to be in a nightclub or have liquor in my system to have a good time. It's one thing to be "religious" and quite another to have a relationship with God. He was not afraid to cry.
I want a guy who thinks for himself.
Unfortunately, yes. We will know by your actions. The down side is the excessiveness of the going to church all the time or with the Muslim mosque